This extends into the parenting space. People always say they’d want to know if their kid was being a bully or excluding kids etc. We’ve found the exact opposite is true when put into practice. I do my best to raise good kids, but I also know kids are navigating their own interpersonal paths with failures and mistakes, and never assume my kids aren’t a part of the problem. Other parents? Past interactions have led me to witness defensiveness, counter accusations, or manipulative reduction in future interactions. Some just can’t handle the truth I guess. The smartest people in the room rarely think they are, and willingness to admit fault is a big part of that.
You bring up a crucial extension into parenting. It's definitely true that many parents claim they want honest feedback about their child's behavior, but when faced with it, the reaction often differs. Just like with adults, acknowledging that their child might be in the wrong can be uncomfortable and trigger defensive responses. It’s a tough balance to maintain, as no parent wants to think negatively of their child, yet recognizing their faults is essential for growth.
I try to keep the same mindset with my son. Understanding that he's learning and making mistakes is part of growing up. I hope to instill in him the value of owning up to his actions and seeing feedback as a pathway to improvement. It’s definitely challenging, but I believe it’s worth the effort.
Thanks for sharing your insights, Nick. It’s a reminder that the principles of growth and self-improvement are universal, extending far beyond just our personal experiences.
Thanks for reading buddy and for sharing this comment. It means SO much to get your feedback and input. You nailed it with this response for sure.
This extends into the parenting space. People always say they’d want to know if their kid was being a bully or excluding kids etc. We’ve found the exact opposite is true when put into practice. I do my best to raise good kids, but I also know kids are navigating their own interpersonal paths with failures and mistakes, and never assume my kids aren’t a part of the problem. Other parents? Past interactions have led me to witness defensiveness, counter accusations, or manipulative reduction in future interactions. Some just can’t handle the truth I guess. The smartest people in the room rarely think they are, and willingness to admit fault is a big part of that.
Hey Nick,
You bring up a crucial extension into parenting. It's definitely true that many parents claim they want honest feedback about their child's behavior, but when faced with it, the reaction often differs. Just like with adults, acknowledging that their child might be in the wrong can be uncomfortable and trigger defensive responses. It’s a tough balance to maintain, as no parent wants to think negatively of their child, yet recognizing their faults is essential for growth.
I try to keep the same mindset with my son. Understanding that he's learning and making mistakes is part of growing up. I hope to instill in him the value of owning up to his actions and seeing feedback as a pathway to improvement. It’s definitely challenging, but I believe it’s worth the effort.
Thanks for sharing your insights, Nick. It’s a reminder that the principles of growth and self-improvement are universal, extending far beyond just our personal experiences.
Thanks for reading buddy and for sharing this comment. It means SO much to get your feedback and input. You nailed it with this response for sure.
Your friend, Trav