This post really struck a chord with me—it’s powerful and important, and like you said, it could literally save a life. I’ve struggled with finding "my people" locally, often feeling more connected to those I meet briefly in places far from home. Your words remind me that this search for deeper connections isn't just my own personal struggle—it’s part of a larger, shared experience that so many men face.
The statistics you shared are chilling and reveal a deeper truth: as men, we need to lean into vulnerability and build genuine connections. I admire your commitment to changing that narrative by joining new groups and making the effort to be present at those quarterly dinners. You’re showing that it's possible to push past isolation, but it requires intentionality and vulnerability—two things we’re often conditioned to avoid.
This crisis may be quiet, but posts like this are loud in the best way. Keep spreading this message, because it’s exactly what we need to hear.
I understand you are speaking from your own experience and perspective as a male- however, this piece could have and should have included women - we are in the same boat - without friendships, loneliness, depression. Work, social media, the world at large has left us all disconnected and socially isolated. Having someone to talk to regularly, seeing people outside of work, "doing things" with others - all super important I do agree. Thanks for sharing and reminding us all to get out there....
Thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughts. I genuinely appreciate it. I completely agree with you—this issue affects everyone, and I didn’t mean to exclude anyone. The post focused on male friendships because there are some unique challenges men face in this area, but that doesn’t diminish the importance of addressing isolation for everyone.
We’re in an unusual moment in society when it comes to gender and the conversations around it. Just last week, a well intentioned friend told me not to voice my concern for my female friends struggling with menopause because I ‘present as a rich white man.’ It’s a strange and tricky space to navigate, and like you pointed out, loneliness and isolation impact us all regardless of gender.
I appreciate your well-formed response and the reminder that these struggles are universal. At the end of the day, I’m just trying to listen, learn, and foster more connection. Thanks again for reading and for sharing your perspective—it means a lot.
This post really struck a chord with me—it’s powerful and important, and like you said, it could literally save a life. I’ve struggled with finding "my people" locally, often feeling more connected to those I meet briefly in places far from home. Your words remind me that this search for deeper connections isn't just my own personal struggle—it’s part of a larger, shared experience that so many men face.
The statistics you shared are chilling and reveal a deeper truth: as men, we need to lean into vulnerability and build genuine connections. I admire your commitment to changing that narrative by joining new groups and making the effort to be present at those quarterly dinners. You’re showing that it's possible to push past isolation, but it requires intentionality and vulnerability—two things we’re often conditioned to avoid.
This crisis may be quiet, but posts like this are loud in the best way. Keep spreading this message, because it’s exactly what we need to hear.
Thank you for sharing this.
Thanks buddy. I really appreciate you sharing that and for your support. The tech scene around here is very small and we all need to stick together.
I understand you are speaking from your own experience and perspective as a male- however, this piece could have and should have included women - we are in the same boat - without friendships, loneliness, depression. Work, social media, the world at large has left us all disconnected and socially isolated. Having someone to talk to regularly, seeing people outside of work, "doing things" with others - all super important I do agree. Thanks for sharing and reminding us all to get out there....
Thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughts. I genuinely appreciate it. I completely agree with you—this issue affects everyone, and I didn’t mean to exclude anyone. The post focused on male friendships because there are some unique challenges men face in this area, but that doesn’t diminish the importance of addressing isolation for everyone.
We’re in an unusual moment in society when it comes to gender and the conversations around it. Just last week, a well intentioned friend told me not to voice my concern for my female friends struggling with menopause because I ‘present as a rich white man.’ It’s a strange and tricky space to navigate, and like you pointed out, loneliness and isolation impact us all regardless of gender.
I appreciate your well-formed response and the reminder that these struggles are universal. At the end of the day, I’m just trying to listen, learn, and foster more connection. Thanks again for reading and for sharing your perspective—it means a lot.
I just subscribed to your substack!